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Bedtime Stories
© The Author, 2006
Sometimes, when we are lying in bed decompressing from the day’s events, I ask Shaun to tell me stories. While everyone’s mind is like an enormous filing cabinet of information, when it comes to retrieving learned information, Shaun has the fastest, most complete, and most extensive system of anyone I’ve ever known. This means that he is not only a talented test-taker, but he is also useful as a walking encyclopedia and literary anthology. He is able to recite countless stories on demand—be it Greek myths, biblical allegories, long forgotten fairy tales, or tribal lore. Shaun’s recall is amazing to behold, and I feel especially lucky that our future child and I are the primary beneficiary of it. What is strange though, is that Shaun has very few memories of childhood, and he is often blocked when it comes to recalling details about personal events.
While I am a shoddy test taker and my memories of learned things are fleeting if not put to use straight away, I am the queen of experienced recall. I can close my eyes and tell you with utmost precision about the night when my purple snow suited little body laid on my back in the snow in my family’s back yard and looked up at the sky. The moon was a crisp slice of honeydew melon and the stars were brighter than I ever remember them being in my whole life.
Earlier that day my step dad and I build a sledding ramp in the backyard hill from snow, as we did at every snowfall. We used the big, black snow shovel and our hands to sculpt two giant mounds running vertically down the sides of the track, to keep the sledded on course. Once built, we tested the track. The first couple of times down the hill were simply to pack the snow into a slick, flat surface. If we were lucky, the surface would acquire an icy sheen over the crust of it that would propel us forward at deadly speeds. After these test rides, we could determine the best location for a ramp and sculpt one.
Soon, the entire neighborhood—Jeff, Brett, Heidi, Kacie, Marty, Ben, Kyle, Andrew, Dave, and my brother Anthony (my brother Julian was still a baby)—came out of the woodwork with saucers and sleds in tow. And my step dad stayed and sledded with us, not as a supervisor, but just as one of us kids. And no one minded. I wouldn’t know how cool my step dad was for that until much later. The most coveted sleds were the snow tubes, preferred for their speed and soft landing capabilities, but saucers were a close second best. The ramp we built that day was placed on perfect pitch and was at such an angle that hitting it with snow tubes flung you so high into the air that your stomach dropped crazily on the way down like on a rollercoaster. With ramps as ferocious as these, snow tubes were definitely preferred.
Noontime became afternoon and afternoon turned orange-ish pink and night slipped into the sky without anyone really noticing it. One by one my sledding pals were called back into their homes for dinner, until I was alone. I began waddling through the snow to the garage to put my sled away when I suddenly got the urge to stop and hear what the night sounded like beneath the deafening swishing of my snowsuit. So I stopped. And it was soft and quiet. And I liked it. I let myself fall to the snow and lay in it. I wasn’t cold. You might not think it, but snow is warm. Igloos are cuddly and I have always wanted to live in one. I stared out at the night sky and watched first my breath come in swirls of steam from my lips. Following the path of the swirls, my eyes caught sight of the honeydew moon and stars that I mentioned earlier. I remembered a scene from Fantasia where the night sky was a blanket that the world was tucked into at bedtime and the stars were pinpricks of sunlight that shone through the fabric. And I thought, “why not?” and lay there a while longer.
I was eleven.
Later than winter, Heidi would scrape her face horribly on a pine tree that she sledded into while riding at top speed on a tube sled on her stomach down the side hill in the Kirby’s front yard. She didn’t sled for a while because the scabs on her face chapped easily.
While Heidi was out with a knarly face, Dave and Andy Dixon, and Kacie, Marty, and Ben Kirby would become arch enemies of myself, Jeff, and Brett because they tattled on us for swearing and their moms came to some of our houses with loaves of banana nut bread saying to each of our parents, “we need to have a talk about your child.” And we only said goddamn! The banana nut loaf visits seriously deepened the feud, and soon we found ourselves building trenches for wicked snowball fights. We built an ingenious base by creating an enormous pile of snow and hollowing out a space just large enough for one of Brett’s dogs to fit in. We put the dog inside of it and sealed the dog in with a wooden board. Anxious to get out, the dog dug a hole through the other side. Before he broke though, we lifted the plank away and the dog escaped, leaving us a nice sized cave. Andy and Dave’s dog was a mangy little fluff ball smaller than my cat, and the Kirbys weren’t allowed to have pets, so our base was much better than theirs.
On day five of the fight, we hatched what seemed like a brilliant plan. We knew from science classes that alcohol did not freeze, and we were eager to add a surprise element to our snow battle plan. That is how we came upon raiding my mom’s liquor cabinet and filling our Super Soakers with vodka. How brilliant we were to storm the Dixon/Kirby front with snowballs and squirt guns!
Of course, when our enemies all went home reeking of Absolut, there were angry visits to our homes made without the pretense of banana nut bread. No matter how much trouble that battle plan got us into, we knew that we were the victors. We could hold our heads high on the walk to the bus stop. And when we were finally ungrounded and allowed to play outside again, we were not to be messed with or tattled on.
While I can’t keep all the Greek myths I’ve heard separate, or match the names of Bible characters to the people and allegories they go with, I have stories of my own. And they aren’t too shabby either.
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How does your memory work? Do you have any fun wintertime stories?
::Random Tangent::
WARNING: Potentially Offensive Content Ahead
Shaun told me the story of the Tower of Babel a few nights ago. If you are in shock that this story is new to me, please consider that most of my family is atheist and the only religion I was really exposed to was at the freaky Church of Christ that I had to go to Sunday school at when I stayed weekends with my dad. Here I was told that women have jobs and men have other jobs and the two worlds shouldn’t collide and that dinosaurs were really chicken bones that scientist made into big, elaborate things in order to gain fame and money. I also learned that the story of Jonah and the whale was not ripped off from the movie Pinocchio, as I had thought. I argued a lot with my Sunday school instructors and I chewed on the rolls of toilet paper in the bathroom to get revenge and make everyone unable to wipe because I had made the paper all spitty and nasty with tooth marks everywhere.
Anyhow, so if you forgot, or if you don’t know, the Tower of Babel is a story about these awesome people who built this really cool tower, like a live/work high-rise building, to live in and have spectacular views, fresh air, and close proximity to the sky, which as we all know, is a thrill for us humans. And everyone lived there and it was really chill because everyone spoke the same language and got along really well living in their phat pad.
Well, God caught wind of this tower and was pissed off. He didn’t like man being able to put people so close to the heavens. As far as he was concerned, that was his job. His toes were being stepped on. So God got crabby and struck the tower down like a whiney baby chucking his toy blocks at the mention of naptime. Not only did he ruin their super cool high-rise, but all the people were flung in every which way, and then they were in new places and they forgot the language they had when they were together. So they no longer shared a common language and they were homeless.
What a jerk God is in this story! Why would anyone want to worship a bastard who gets jelous when someone makes a really cool thing? Why would people love a god who hates collaboration and peacefulness and understanding between groups? He sounds like an a-hole to me. I’d much prefer to rot in hell than to celebrate that sort of bad behavior. Although, that is easy for me to say since I don’t really believe in hell. Also, you’ve got to be pretty off your rocker to believe that the reason we all speak different languages is because a bunch of people fell off a really high tower and landed in different parts of the world. I’m not saying it couldn’t happen, but I certainly wouldn’t sacrifice Sunday morning leisure for it, that’s for sure.
Anyhow, my apologies to those I might offend. This story just knocked my socks off and I find it incredible that people who seem perfectly sane (many of whom are my dear friends) actually believe that this stuff is true. Amazing! We are such a crazy species!